Monday, January 3, 2011

"He's not cheating, they're just really close..."

   Emotional Infidelity in a relationship has become so common in the African-American community that it is no longer recognizable in our day to day interactions.  I'm not talking the obvious "catch'em in the act," kind of cheating.  I'm talking about the more subtle kind of cheating that leaves you wondering about the strength of your relationship, and second guessing your partner.
   Sometimes these subtle love triangles may involve a friend, a co-worker, or even a close confidant.  These sexually charged, emotionally intense, yet strictly platonic relationships can put a drain on a couple's relationship.  In my experience working with couples, I have noticed some common signs of this which we call "emotional cheating".
    Have you ever been in a relationship with an emotional cheater? What were the signs you noticed? 






    
  

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